The Department of Defense estimates 14,900 service members experienced some kind of sexual assault in 2016 - its most recent report. But because of the stigma - many wait decades before they get help - usually from the VA.
So it’s no surprise, the average age is 45 for women and 50 for men for veterans entering the Bay Pines VA Center for Sexual Trauma Services in St. Petersburg.
The delay seeking treatment is in part due to the increased level of power and control associated with military sexual trauma said Jessica Keith, a clinical psychologist and manager of the Bay Pines sexual trauma center.
“The perpetrators are often someone in the command line, someone with power. And power not only to ruin someone’s career, to impact their standing in the military,” Keith said. “We also have to remember these are people with weapons who are trained to use them. So, it can be terrifying when you’re sexually traumatized in the military.”
And there’s added pressure on young recruits because reporting a sexual assault or continued sexual harassment of a fellow service member could be considered a betrayal.
“If they’re in your unit, you’re told that these are your brothers and sisters, this is your family, that they’re supposed to have your back,” said Keith. “So, what does it mean when someone is supposed to have your back is the same person who sexually assaults you? It really increases the severity of the trauma on that person.”
The Bay Pines program for military sexual trauma survivors takes on those severe cases.
Survivor Jacque Thorington, 53, is an Army veteran and said she felt betrayed and ashamed when a military superior assaulted her decades ago. But she covered up her symptoms using alcohol and prescription drugs.
When she finally went to the VA for help, the outpatient treatment wasn’t frequent enough and it required a five-hour, round-trip commute from her home in New Mexico.
“I needed specialized care. And I knew that things were really going wrong,” said Thorington who entered the Bay Pines residential program in January. “I was very depressed. I was suicidal. I couldn’t function at work anymore. I really thought that my world was done, that I, I was going to kill myself.”
In the intense Bay Pines program, she meets with a therapist twice a week for prolonged exposure therapy - where she retells the story of her assault over and over until the strong fear associated with the memory decreases.
Seven days a week, she’s in a group session with the other 15 women and men in the program. They often go on field trips to be exposed to “real life” situations like a crowded mall. That’s helping Thorington, who said she hadn’t left her bedroom for months prior to arriving at Bay Pines.
After just a few weeks, Thorington said she’s noted a big difference and is looking forward to enjoying the rest of her life, “and not be looking over my shoulder anymore.”
The Bay Pines program is designed to reintegrate veterans back into their community, their work and their personal relationships.
When Army veteran Gail Bethel, 54, entered the program last winter, what she wanted most was a better relationship with her daughter.
Bethel said she became pregnant after being raped on base by an unknown assailant in the early 1980s. It took more than 30 years before she got treatment and graduated from Bay Pines earlier this year.
Her proudest moment came New Year’s Eve when her daughter called her ‘Mom’ for the first time during a phone call, “because she never called me Mom before. She used to call me by my name, or lady. Now she calls me mom.”
New Year’s also marked another victory for Bethel, who Keith called a “role model” for the program.
“We have a motto we borrowed from Gandhi, ‘Be the change you want to see in the world,’” Keith said. “She (Bethel) took it upon herself to organize events for all the veterans here. She organized a New Year’s Eve party for them all. She kept planning events. Part of her recovery is building that community and she actively sought that out.”
Bay Pines treats about 100 veterans a year in the residential program and another 400 as outpatients for military sexual trauma.
Psychiatrist Dr. Alfonso Carreno, chief of Bay Pines Mental Health and Behavioral Sciences, said he’s seen veterans become more open about sexual trauma during his 17 years there.
“So now, we have more males coming forward that are being assessed for military sexual trauma which in the past it was a no-no in the military to share those experiences,” Carreno said, adding that men make up about half of all the military sexual assault survivors.
Carreno said because their program is coed, veterans tend to be quicker at re-entering society which has both men and women.
Surveys of Bay Pines program graduates, according to Keith, show that 90 percent or more “have a clinically significant drop in their PTSD and depression symptoms.”
Both Carreno and Keith attribute that success to letting veterans set their own goals.
“We ask them what do they want to see different in their life? For some veterans, it might be straightforward, they want fewer nightmares they want less PTSD symptoms, but others want something very different,” Keith said.
Bay Pines established the first VA coed, residential program for military sexual trauma in 2000 and it remains one of only a handful in the VA system.
But every VA medical center has a military sexual trauma coordinator to assist veterans.
And the VA expanded eligibility for veterans who experienced military sexual trauma thanks to the Veterans Access, Choice and Accountability Act of 2014.
Veterans who experienced sexual assault or sexual harassment while on active-duty are eligible for free VA treatment even if they did not report the assault while in the military or lack documentation.
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